Green Bananas
by cindy
I hear my mother’s words. Sometimes in my head. Sometimes, coming right out of my mouth.
“March!” she would say to me and my siblings when we dawdled too long.
“March!” I would say to my children when they, too, dawdled.
“Just put one foot in front of another,” she advised when I shared a problem I felt I couldn’t handle.
“Just put one foot in front of another” I advised others when their problems seemed insurmountable.
“Cindy, you know your dad and I don’t buy green bananas anymore” she told me with a wry smile as cancer began to ravage her body.
I now face the challenge of all challenges.
I am marching.
I am putting one foot in front of the other.
And with infinite optimism, I will continue to buy green bananas.
I have said that to myself so many times… one foot in front of the other. When Lauren was struggling her freshman year, that’s what I told her. Sometimes that’s the only option you have. Love you. And continue to love life.
March on, fearless woman…..the many of us who love you to the moon and back are there to catch you, push you and love you….